As u know I lost my son..what I experienced was I dont care. I mean I really didn't care about anything. What cab anyone do to me that could be worse than loosing a child. I gained 60 lbs in a year. My marriage and my relationships with friends suffered and I didn't care. It's been 5 years now and I am just learning to care and reinvest in my relationships. Much longer story about the road back as u can imagine.
Bud. [bear hugs + all the camp flags + "sticks up" here.]
i would love to hear about that longer road. surely we're gonna find our way into some face-time sooner or later??
when we're knocked sideways inside of our story, I believe one survival strategy involves shutting down entire systems. (of course, at points, our solutions can be worse than our problems -- been there -- but i believe there's SO. MUCH. grace + mercy available, as we wind our way through, mile by mile.)
i count it a special gift that I was one of the lucky ones who got to watch your boy grow up. can you believe our friendship is going on two decades??
Feels like yesterday we were sneaking cereal after night strike...jt
The chorus of questions. So grateful you ask them.♥️
How sweet to have a friendship that can hold them -- then deepen, reframe, & refine them. So grateful!
As u know I lost my son..what I experienced was I dont care. I mean I really didn't care about anything. What cab anyone do to me that could be worse than loosing a child. I gained 60 lbs in a year. My marriage and my relationships with friends suffered and I didn't care. It's been 5 years now and I am just learning to care and reinvest in my relationships. Much longer story about the road back as u can imagine.
Peace and love
Bud. [bear hugs + all the camp flags + "sticks up" here.]
i would love to hear about that longer road. surely we're gonna find our way into some face-time sooner or later??
when we're knocked sideways inside of our story, I believe one survival strategy involves shutting down entire systems. (of course, at points, our solutions can be worse than our problems -- been there -- but i believe there's SO. MUCH. grace + mercy available, as we wind our way through, mile by mile.)
i count it a special gift that I was one of the lucky ones who got to watch your boy grow up. can you believe our friendship is going on two decades??
Feels like yesterday we were sneaking cereal after night strike...jt